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March 21, 2024

Episode 127: One Church, Three Sexual Predators

Ignite Life Center, an Assemblies of God Church in Gainesville, Florida, has been in the news since last summer due to repeated arrests for the sexual abuse of minors. So, how do three predators end up in the same church? We…
March 7, 2024

Episode 126: Florida Keys SBC Pastor Arrested for Sexually Assaulting Teen Girl

This story hits close to home, as in, just down the road from where I live. A Southern Baptist pastor in the Keys has been arrested after a 15-year-old girl says he plied her with alcohol and assaulted her on a couch inside …
Feb. 29, 2024

Episode 125: Why Survivors Protect Their Abusers

A common theme among survivors of clergy sexual abuse is victims feeling a responsibility to protect their abuser from being "found out." On today's episode, we're taking a look at Tammy Woods's open letter to Mike Bickle of…
Feb. 22, 2024

Episode 124: Mike Bickle Accused of Sexually Abusing Girls Ages 14, 15

The plot has thickened in the IHOP KC / Mike Bickle saga, with two women claiming that Bickle began sexually abusing them when they were only 14 and 15 years old, dating all the way back to the beginning of Bickle's ministry…
Feb. 15, 2024

Episode 123: Paige and Andy Weber on International House of Prayer (Part 2)

Today we're finishing up our chat with Andy Weber and Paige Weber, MA, MO-PLPC, EMDR, former staffers at International House of Prayer, where founder Mike Bickle has been accused by multiple women of grooming and sexual abus…
Feb. 8, 2024

Episode 122: International House of Preyer? Andy and Paige Weber Share Insight on Mike Bickle and IHOP

The allegations of sexual misconduct and abuse by International House of Prayer founder Mike Bickle keep piling up, and on today's episode, we chat with Andy Weber and Paige Weber, MA, MO-PLPC, EMDR, both of whom served on s…
Feb. 1, 2024

Episode 121: Were You Sexually Abused? The Answer May Surprise You

It may seem like a no-brainer to a person who has never experienced sexual trauma, but whether your experience was actually sexual abuse can be a common question for survivors of sexual abuse. Today on the podcast, we'll def…
Jan. 25, 2024

Episode 120: Pastor Allegedly Hid Sexual Abuse, Hired Child Porn Defense Attorney to "Protect" Church's Children

Surprise, surprise, another SBC pastor has been accused of covering up sexual abuse. But there is so much more to this story than the headlines may lead you to believe. You might have seen the recent news that staff members …
Jan. 18, 2024

Episode 119: Children are Now the Top Perpetrators of Child Sexual Abuse

A decade ago, around 1/3 of all child sexual abuse offenses were committed. New statistics, however, show that number has dramatically increased, making children the top perpetrators of child sexual abuse. What gives? We cha…
Dec. 14, 2023

Episode 118: No, Sexual Abuse Isn't Just Like Any Other Sin

A sin is a sin is a sin, right? Or is it? On today's podcast we're discussing the distinction between "sin" and predation, and how sin-leveling contributes to perpetuating sexual abuse in the church. --- Send in a voice me…
Nov. 23, 2023

EPISODE 117: Sacred Wholeness: A conversation on Mind, Body and Soul Healing with Joshua Yoder Part 2

On today's episode of the podcast, we finish our chat on the integration of mind, body and soul for sacred wholeness with Joshua Yoder ⁠BECOME A PATRON and JOIN THE CONVERSATION!⁠ ⁠Sacred Wholeness on Instagram --- Send in…
Nov. 16, 2023

EPISODE 116: Sacred Wholeness: A conversation on Mind, Body and Soul Healing with Joshua Yoder

On today's episode of the podcast, we chat with friend of the podcast, pastor, personal trainer and certified nutrition coach Joshua Yoder on the integration of mind, body and soul for sacred wholeness after sexual abuse. BE…
Nov. 2, 2023

Episode 115: The Silence of Sexual Abuse

From the moment a child is abused, it seems the whole universe conspires to keep them silent. Whether internal or external, the voices that silence us are most often speaking from a place of shame. We'll chat about that sham…
Sept. 20, 2023

Episode 114: Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis Take a Page from the Church's Abuse Playbook

Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis Address Leniency Letters in Danny Masterson Rape Case Become a Patron of the Podcast! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/survivorsanctuary/message Support thi…
Aug. 9, 2023

Episode 113: Sound of Freedom - If "Conspiracy Theorists" Want to Save Kids from Sex Slavery, Please Shut All the Way Up and Let Them

On this episode of the podcast, Survivor Sanctuary goes to the movies! We're discussing some of the controversy surrounding the movie Sound of Freedom, and the lengths some people are going to discredit the film because they…
July 26, 2023

EPISODE 112: Artificial Intelligence and the Surge in Child Sexual Abuse

Artificial intelligence is pretty incredible, and it's exploding in a big way. But experts are warning that AI could lead to an increase in real-life cases of child sexual abuse. Are AI-generated images of child sex abuse "v…
June 22, 2023

Episode 111: On Pastors Who Preach About Drag Queen Story Hour, But Ignore Sexual Abuse In The Church

Imagine the surprise of survivors everywhere when a pastor who has never had a word to say about sexual abuse in the church suddenly crafts an entire sermon series about the "grooming" of children... Well, don't get excited.…
May 17, 2023

EPISODE 110: We Are Not Powerless When It Comes To Sexual Abuse In The Church

Sometimes it feels like the bad guys are winning, like there's nothing we can do to stop predators within the church. It's not like child molesters typically commit their crimes in front of multiple witnesses to make it easy…
May 3, 2023

Selective Outrage: Chris Rock Just Defined the Church's Problem with Sexual Abuse

Without meaning to, Chris Rock has pegged the evangelical church when it comes to sexual abuse. Selective Outrage isn't just his latest stand-up show, it's the actual definition of the church's pearl-clutching over "grooming…
April 12, 2023

EPISODE 108: The Dalai Lama Reminds Me A Lot of My Childhood Abuser

You may have seen the recent video of the Dalai Lama's creepy, disturbing behavior with a young boy. We discuss it, and how he took a page directly from my abuser's playbook, in today's episode. RESOURCES: Dalai Lama Asks Bo…
March 22, 2023

Episode 107: Alleged Rapist Resigns, but Churchome Still Isn't Safe for Survivors

After outcry in the media, alleged rapist Braylon Oliver has resigned from his position at Churchome. But is this a victory for survivors? And does it make Churchome safe? Hardly. We discuss on today's episode of Survivor Sa…
March 1, 2023

Episode 106: Churchome and Judah Smith Apparently Think It's "Fun" to Ask Victims to OK Hiring Their Alleged Rapists

Yet again, a church is in the news for hiring a credibly accused rapist to its staff. The kicker in this case is that they ran it by the alleged victim-who was adamantly against it-and did it anyway, in a pretty callous/tone…
Feb. 15, 2023

Episode 105: Grace To You... Unless You're Being Abused

John MacArthur and Grace Community Church are back in the news for *checks notes* continuing to turn their backs on victims of abuse. While the Church is busy clutching their pearls over Sam Smith's devil costume at the Gram…
Jan. 18, 2023

Episode 104: The Myth of "Radical Grace"

Radical forgiveness. Radical grace. These buzz phrases get thrown around in Christianity, soaking survivors of sexual abuse in shame and letting predators off the hook. But are they actually scriptural? We discuss on today's…